Friday, October 28, 2011

Letter #1 from Bev


October 12, 2011
Chris,
I guess you could say that I’m playing into your fears that no one will write you while you are away, but all of a sudden I have been super busy. I know that it sounds like a ton of excuses, but on a positive note it does give me a ton to talk about. And to be really honest I have thought about writing you every day and it’s hard for me to tell what you will care about so I will just tell you everything.
Mom and I went to see the movie “The Help.” It was such a great movie that I went out and got the book and read all 522 pages in less than a week. The entire story was funny, sad and left me thinking. In case you don’t know anything about the movie/book. Set in Jackson, Mississippi in the early 1960’s. It kind of gives a real face to the civil rights movement. The author really did her homework she talked about Medgar Evers getting shot, schools being integrated and Martin Luther King’s march on Washington D.C.
Compared to some of the stories that have come on in the past couple of years it has a very new story line. A white woman named “Skeeter” wants to be a writer and decided to think outside of the box with her first writing assignment so she decided to enlist the services of the hired help from around the area. Talking about working for the white families and there are some shocking stories.
I also had a pretty big interview for a school in Traverse City. It came down to me and one other person. They went with the other person for the main reason that they were internal. The really cool part even though I didn’t get the job is that they liked me so well that they looked for another position for me. They tried to piece a job together for me. Unfortunately I was unable to fill any of them. Well I could of filled the half time special ed teacher but I would have spent more in gas to get up there then I would have just being a sub.
Katie has been coming over about once a week. For many different things, we had to watch Milo this past weekend. It was kind of nice to have a dog again but it was really nice to send him home too.
Mom and Dad have decided to be vegans but I think that it’s turning out to be more of a vegetarian diet then anything else. You should see the lentil burgers mom made. They look a lot like turds formed into patties. They are this grayish/green color and sometimes they have black specks in them. Sounds yummy, doesn’t it? Honestly, I haven’t tried them as a burger with all of the fixings, I have tried them plain and they really aren’t that bad. But for some reason I just can’t bring myself to eat them.
I have recently have come crossed the idea of photo journaling. One of the author’s blogs I read hires photographers to walk around and take pictures at his speaking event. It is a really neat way to chronicle anything and I love journaling anyways as a way to keep a record for future generations to have a personal account of what happened in the day to day stuff. So journaling with pictures would be even better.
With this in mind, this Christmas I plan on starting a new project called “December Daily”. December Daily is a photo album project that documents the 25 days leading up to Christmas. It will be super easy for me to accomplish because all I do is take a one picture from each day and journal about it. My plan is to do a photo book from Snapfish because they do all of the work for you. They check my spelling for me and everything and they are always having specials on them. 40% off or Buy one Get one Free, life doesn’t get much better then that. I’m praying that you can make it in the book because you will be home, but I’m counting on you to send me pictures to add to it as well.
The woman that started this project starts planning her album in October and really puts some neat work together. With the different textures that she uses she is really imaginative and at some point I would like to put together some of the albums that she does, I think I need to be realistic and do what I know will work for me. She makes a living doing scrapbook projects and blogging about them. I really like the digital work she does and I think I fall into that category of how I will scrapbook. Another thing I really like about the books from Snapfish is that they will be much easier to store then the albums she makes.
I also want to write on the blog mom made for you but I’m pretty sure that I should get a letter out to you first. But I will probably post my December Daily on there as well as on my own blog. I will probably post my letter on there too just so you know that someone was writing you even if the letters get lost in the mail.
So right now I have a ton of plans and good intentions. We will see which ones I get done because we both know the road to hell was paved with good intentions.
I have a book for you. Someone from my church brought it to me last week after they saw your name on the prayer bulletin and brought to me to give to you. This person served a couple of tours in Iraq and said it brought a ton of comfort to them.  
Mom, Dad and I are all planning on going to Caty birthday party this weekend. Maybe I will do a photo journal of that for you.
Well all love you and miss you dearly. I will continue to pray for you until forever. Bev

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

By Now I Don't Remember What Day - from Mom

Honestly I've not forgotten you but I'm having a hard time...I thought this would help but it has not! I am going to try anyway to keep this up now...hahaha!!

I've been remembering how I always said it was an honor to serve? I take it back - I know you can't but I want you to come home - now - I don't want you to go! I love you and miss you and I will always be very, very proud of you - always!!

I'll try to type more later and know I will be ok but I can't see past the tears...love you forever...Mom



Friday, September 16, 2011

Day #9 - from Mom

I'm really trying to be interesting - hahaha! I am so not a writer...

We have Caty again this weekend - Dee and Matt decided to go to the UP for Matt's birthday alone. It's good for everyone involved!! Aiden will be here tomorrow for awhile - Katie has to work and Linda has a meeting. I think Dad is going to take them fishing - he loves to do that. Of course, I'm not sure who enjoys it more!!

Some of my friends have joked that I'd get tired of having Dad around now that he's retired but I'm really loving it! We have been doing a lot together and he is much more relaxed. We have been going for about an hour walk everyday. Today was the 1st-ish day that we ate vegetarian - I made a big pot of vegetable stew - supposedly it was some 'Irish Cabbage Stew' recipe and it was really, really good. Dad liked it too - even little Caty tasted the broth and said it was good! She wouldn't eat any of the 'stuff' - but she at least tasted it. She is really growing up because last year she would have thrown a fit if I had mentioned she try it - tonight it was her idea!!

Heading to bed - love you lots!!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Day #6 - from Mom

Tomorrow is Aiden's birthday - Dad and I are going to get one of those big Mylar balloons and take it to school for him. I haven't heard anything about a party but if he has one we'll take lots of pictures! Thanks for the phone call today!! I loved hearing from you!!

Monday, September 12, 2011

Day #5 - from Mom





Just a reminder - we love you!!

Dad is watching this guy on TV by the name of Dr. Joel Fuhrman. He is talking about vitamins and a healthy diet...the reason I'm sharing this is because of what I made for dinner - let me explain...

I made Hungarian Goulash and langos - so it consisted of beef, potatoes, onions, a bit of water, and lots of spicy, spicy paprika and langos - which are basically deep fat fried yeast dough (made with mashed-potatoes) and then covered in garlic -- oh, so healthy!!! LOL!!! I will admit it did taste fantastic - sorry if I made you home-sick.

Dad put an application in at Lakeview Manor - I'm really glad because he needs something more productive to do - he thought he might enjoy doing that work part-time and I think it would be great for him. I have been encouraging him to do something - even if it is just volunteer work and at least he's heading in that direction. I think the way he is acting happens quite often at the start of retirement and once he gets out there doing something he will get in the habit of doing something besides TV.

Love you!!

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Day #4 - from Mom

Hey Chris - Spent the afternoon with Katie and Aiden along with Caty. Katie and Aiden were doing pretty good but really missing you - if you can and are reading this - call or text them - just let them know you're thinking of them.

It really feels weird not having Caty much - we only got her 24 hours this weekend! It will be at least 2 weeks until we get to see her again because they are going to the UP this next weekend for Matt's birthday. He'll be 24 next Sunday - I think - and then on the 29th is Drake's birthday. The 22nd of this month is also Nana's 81st birthday and by the way - she moved into Aunt Susie's house last week.

Love You!!

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Day #3 - from Mom

We've been spending the day - on and off - watching 9-11 news footage. Tomorrow is the 10 year anniversary.

Caty is here - we went today to get her. She spent last night with Matt's mom - there was some festival in Blair Township with 'hoppy/jumping thing-y's' and water slides today. It really feels strange not seeing her everyday and Dee hasn't given us her new schedule so I don't know when we will have her again...

Also in the news today - a federal judge overturned Michigan's law preventing groups from protesting at funerals - it's sad but if they (non-protestors) ask for help, if I can, I'll be there. Maybe it is unconstitutional to prevent peaceful protesting but in this situation it's just not right.

Fall is coming - it was dark by 8:30 pm, leaves are changing, and the garden is just about dead. The garden really suffered this year because I was in Indiana when I should have put it in - even the zucchini didn't grow very well!!

I love you Chris and I'm looking forward to seeing you once more at the end of the month - love, Mom

Friday, September 9, 2011

Day #2 - from Mom


I have to tell you - this is going to be hard! You know, I'm just not much of a writer...LOL!!

I do want to tell you that I'm doing pretty good today. I'm drinking a home-made 'pumpkin spice latte' - made by Bev and it's really good!

Did I tell you Dad is toying with the idea of becoming a vegan - oh yes, I am so going to work this one - lol!! Found a recipe for seitan (fake meat made from nutritional yeast and wheat gluten) that people say (and I want to emphasize SAY) tastes like pepperoni and I am so going to make him eat it too - maybe I'll take a picture of him eating it for you. I did tell him that I would incorporate some vegetarian recipes into the family rotation but that I know he could not give up his half and half in his coffee.

I love you Chris!!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Day 1 - from Mom

You have reported for duty - ok, like 15 minutes ago...I was tempted to walk down the street to see if I could catch one more glimpse of you but I didn't. I was just a tad bit afraid I would embarrass you like the way you wouldn't let me kiss you on your first day of kindergarten. You were so afraid someone would see me kiss you - lol!

Let me explain the title of this blog - 14 months is about 425 days and that's how long you are to be gone. I know it is not an exact number but if I can 'count down' the days until you return I think it will be easier for me. I'm not promising to write here everyday but I want to share what is going on at home while you are protecting our freedom. This, at least my plans for this, is to open this blog to anyone who wants to share with you while you are away. Hopefully this will portray a story of our love for you.